I'm going skiing this weekend with my brother in law and sister and boyfriend. I leave after work tomorrow. I feel like everything in the world will explode before we finally drive out of town, and I'm bored at work and want to complain.
What was the best thing a girlfriend or wife ever did on vacation for you? :Keep in mind I am Mormon, and chaste...:
Waiting for Denver...
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To me it depends on the girl.
If you're normally a total bitch. Just being nice and simply asking if he wants something to drink when you get up can change the whole atmosphere.
Speaking from personal experience, it totally depends on your guy and relationship. For example. I always pay for dinner. So simply paying for a 'regular' dinner. Don't make the mistake of trying to pay for a special occassion unless you planned it. Most guys are so use to paying all the time, when a girl grabs the check and pays its really nice and unexpected.
But, honestly each guy will have something different.
Whats nice to me, may not mean anything to your boyfriend. But everyone loves an aggressive lap dance.
If you're normally a total bitch. Just being nice and simply asking if he wants something to drink when you get up can change the whole atmosphere.
Speaking from personal experience, it totally depends on your guy and relationship. For example. I always pay for dinner. So simply paying for a 'regular' dinner. Don't make the mistake of trying to pay for a special occassion unless you planned it. Most guys are so use to paying all the time, when a girl grabs the check and pays its really nice and unexpected.
But, honestly each guy will have something different.
Whats nice to me, may not mean anything to your boyfriend. But everyone loves an aggressive lap dance.
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definitely don't know if I should be saying this, but...he already gets all of those things, including the occasional lap dance. hehehehe
Here's another question I pose for you. I have an issue. I am VERY active iin my church. So is he. We hang out with mostly people from church. Here's the issue: there isn't a single good friend of his that likes me, and that's not what bothers me. It's more that they continue to say things or assuade him out of the relationship, and call me things...I'm not quite sure what to do, and the more it goes on, the worse I feel about absolutely everything. I think he saw that last night and didn't know what to say, (the me being REALLY upset about it), so he left. Ick
Here's another question I pose for you. I have an issue. I am VERY active iin my church. So is he. We hang out with mostly people from church. Here's the issue: there isn't a single good friend of his that likes me, and that's not what bothers me. It's more that they continue to say things or assuade him out of the relationship, and call me things...I'm not quite sure what to do, and the more it goes on, the worse I feel about absolutely everything. I think he saw that last night and didn't know what to say, (the me being REALLY upset about it), so he left. Ick
He should ofc taken your side, telling his friends not to say those tings about you and too you.Agreed, sometimes guys are clueless as to what they should do so they leave the situation until they can get help (or time to think) about what to do. However if he really likes you and someone is saying bad things about you, he should be defending you (like bane said), and not taking off, like if someone said something about my wife (when we were dating) I'd tell them to f-off and probably never talk to them again. If he liked you that much he would leave all those people for you, so as much as I hate to say it, you should make sure he really likes you and isn't just dating you for how you look in that swim suit....(which is goodshiram wrote:maybe he needed perspective and time?
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That's kind of what i thought. I don't doubt his loyalty, by any means, but he is VERY loyal to all of his friends. He doesn't speak negatively about people most of the time, and he doesn't gossip. I think he didn't know what to do. But if ANY of my friends pulled anything like this I'd tell them to F* off...
...and now, they want to double date...
...and now, they want to double date...
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Its very odd. I've never had a problem with intermingling groups.. but i tend to date women far longer than i should, so my friends deal with them after we break up and shit.
I think if a guy friend of mine was ever out of line, id tell him to cut that shit out. Then break from them for a while.
Usually if the relationship ends you get the friend back. If it keeps going, check in on them later when things get more serious.
A lot of guys dont have respect for girls unless they're clearly WITH one of there male friends. You may be getting the 'thats just his ho' responses. Not the 'thats his gf' responses.
I think if a guy friend of mine was ever out of line, id tell him to cut that shit out. Then break from them for a while.
Usually if the relationship ends you get the friend back. If it keeps going, check in on them later when things get more serious.
A lot of guys dont have respect for girls unless they're clearly WITH one of there male friends. You may be getting the 'thats just his ho' responses. Not the 'thats his gf' responses.
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Have you tried telling him how much you don't like it when he doesn't stand up for you? Telling him straight up will work wonders, either he'll realize that it's time to change his acting, or you'll realize that it's time to change boyfriends.
As for the best thing to do? Shower with your man, you can wash his back, and anywhere else you like, and he gets a chance to do the same for you.
Then when you're all clean, lead him by the hand to bed, give him a nice massage, and then sit and snuggle, talk all night.
That, and morning fellatio, always a classic.
As for the best thing to do? Shower with your man, you can wash his back, and anywhere else you like, and he gets a chance to do the same for you.
Then when you're all clean, lead him by the hand to bed, give him a nice massage, and then sit and snuggle, talk all night.
That, and morning fellatio, always a classic.
Sometimes you really have to wonder about the feasibility of an elephant deflowering a fly...
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RoamingMadness
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Im forwarding this to my girl.The Mac wrote:Have you tried telling him how much you don't like it when he doesn't stand up for you? Telling him straight up will work wonders, either he'll realize that it's time to change his acting, or you'll realize that it's time to change boyfriends.
As for the best thing to do? Shower with your man, you can wash his back, and anywhere else you like, and he gets a chance to do the same for you.
Then when you're all clean, lead him by the hand to bed, give him a nice massage, and then sit and snuggle, talk all night.
That, and morning fellatio, always a classic.
You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
There probably isn't any meaning in life. Perhaps you can find something interesting to do while you are alive. Like how you found that flower. Like how I found you.
Buttons aren't toys.
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
There probably isn't any meaning in life. Perhaps you can find something interesting to do while you are alive. Like how you found that flower. Like how I found you.
Buttons aren't toys.
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Re: Waiting for Denver...
I tried my damnedest and i couldn't think of a single nonsexual thing you could do.LizabethLilly wrote:I'm going skiing this weekend with my brother in law and sister and boyfriend. I leave after work tomorrow. I feel like everything in the world will explode before we finally drive out of town, and I'm bored at work and want to complain.
What was the best thing a girlfriend or wife ever did on vacation for you? :Keep in mind I am Mormon, and chaste...:
you should try asking him, i guarantee he'll think of something.
EDIT: since this thread is old, you should just give him a BJ win-win.
Re: Waiting for Denver...
StormCrow wrote:I tried my damnedest and i couldn't think of a single nonsexual thing you could do.LizabethLilly wrote:I'm going skiing this weekend with my brother in law and sister and boyfriend. I leave after work tomorrow. I feel like everything in the world will explode before we finally drive out of town, and I'm bored at work and want to complain.
What was the best thing a girlfriend or wife ever did on vacation for you? :Keep in mind I am Mormon, and chaste...:
you should try asking him, i guarantee he'll think of something.
EDIT: since this thread is old, you should just give him a BJ win-win.
haha a day late and adollar short. :-p
im so disciplined i fold my pocket kings 1 out of every 3 times i get them
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Again its an old thread, but for future reference.. i have recently gotten into hand done gifts.
So long as you put some effort into it, i think you can make something personal and amazing. Men, in my opinion, really enjoy being treated like a king. A nice card saying how amazing he is, making him a drink, rub his back, etc etc.. a bunch of little things can make a much bigger impact that any single big thing.
Unless that big thing is tivo. But.. no one can resist the powers of tivo.
So long as you put some effort into it, i think you can make something personal and amazing. Men, in my opinion, really enjoy being treated like a king. A nice card saying how amazing he is, making him a drink, rub his back, etc etc.. a bunch of little things can make a much bigger impact that any single big thing.
Unless that big thing is tivo. But.. no one can resist the powers of tivo.
You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
There probably isn't any meaning in life. Perhaps you can find something interesting to do while you are alive. Like how you found that flower. Like how I found you.
Buttons aren't toys.
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
There probably isn't any meaning in life. Perhaps you can find something interesting to do while you are alive. Like how you found that flower. Like how I found you.
Buttons aren't toys.